You're really getting too worked up on the Forum for what it's doing to you. As I said, I basically SUPPORTED you. Again, 'shut down' is what you are characterizing the current situation to be; not me. 2 words can't describe what I, and basically, others are saying. Again, I, and others, are basically saying to give it a rest.
Fine, post up every month. Fine, post up with an update every month. And as I said, I and others, will keep your 'experience' in mind should it happen to us. How does 'my position' make me self-centered?! I think now you're simply over-reacting, whilst looking to get even. You're sounding callous. Is that necessary?!
PS: I'm not being nasty. (At least I'd like to think I'm not being nasty.) My threshold for sounding like I'm 'shutting you down' may be higher but I do have one. Please, give it a rest ...