There is a video set that takes you through the building of a home with the home owner as the General contractor. Itís called "Contracting a Home", and is available at most hardware stores that carry "how to" videos. Volumes one and two are sold separately.
Without angering *** ****, I will add that they are produced by the TV show, "Hometime", and (in my opinion) are very good. They also have another 2-video collection along the same lines, but I have not seen them, nor can remember what they are called.
You can also order it through their web site, www.hometime.com