Unlike your problem, my neighbors walls vibrate when one zone of my system is running.
we have tried everything, including lower pressure, changing sprinkler heads, moving the control valve, installing a pressure regulator on his line beyond the cutoff. I cannot believe that this is the first time that this has happened in the history of lawn sprinkler systems with no solution. The water setup is a common line off the main with a T split, and one side metered to my house and the other to my neighbor. This is the only remote connection of the two homes or water systems. Incidentally, it may not matter, but my home is 1 lefel and my neighbor has 2 levels.