It is not so much what you are trying to say, it is how you say it. You appear to have informative constructive things to say but, the way you communicate is often crass and demeaning. You seem frustrated. Take a deep breath and relax. There is no need to jump all over someome because they don't understand or see it you way. It may be quite possible that some people don't understand you,and not "they don't want to hear it." Lighten up and relax. This message board will be more useful for it's intended purpose to all without all this condesending ranting back and forth.