I have dark stained kitchen cabinets in a 1970's ranch style home. Would like to lighten them up but not sure if I want to go through the process of stripping and restaining. Also don't want them to look new like with a shiny coat of white paint. Would like some color but also want them to look distressed or antiqued. My kitchen is painted pale peach with cream accents and have some greens, blues, and grape color in my wall paper. Does anybody have any ideas or instructions.