Well, appliance paint works very well for a change in color, but your chance of finding that color are pretty remote.
If I were you, I would pack that baby up and take it to a car paint place. There you could get your color and you could get a good baked on finish. Heck, Macco, here in Texas charges $169 for a baked on finish with clear coat, so I imagine that you could do your refrig under $70.
To remove the insignia is something that I would have to look at. It went on some way and you just need to determine how.