This is why you get a Home Inspection and why you pay the big bucks for a good, qualified Inspector.
As I mentioned, go through EACH and EVERY room in the house and WRITE down your 'concerns/questions' so you don't have to remember what to ask. Make it easy for yourself. (Re-read my Follow-up Yes, A Home Inspection from yesterday ...)
My best to ya and hope this helps.
Jay J -Moderator
PS: Do tell the Inspector that you have small children and would appreciate him making mention of 'things' that might affect their well-being ...